How To Get Your Ex Back?

The Graduate is without a doubt one of my all-time greatest movies; the Lovelorn Girl somehow manages to win her lover back, similar to the forlorn guy and his girlfriend. He was not only fighting to have her back, but also save her from the brink of an already rolling wedding and marry her. She was at the altar, just about to say the golden 'I do' when, in the nick of time, her ex appeared and, off, they went. Don’t you just fall in love with such movie scene? 

The movie aside, don’t we all hate break-ups and the painful moments that follow? The real agony is perhaps when the other party departs while your heart is still reluctant to let him or her go. Thankfully, the best part about breaking with the love of your life is the 'making up' part. It is romantically memorable, much like the first time you two fell in love. Is there a chance or a way I can have him or her back given that the break up is weeks, months or even years old? 

This is not one of those Hollywood or Telenovela pieces, but trust me you can reverse him or her back. As a matter of fact, there are countless ways of nailing your other half even today. For an even detailed perspective, below is all the top ten proven ways. 

However how much you valued both your ex and the relationship, you ought to stand up with dignity and ask for a genuine forgiveness. This, of course, softens the heart of the other party while showing that you are remorseful of whatever led to the break-up. While many might not understand the difference between asking for forgiveness and begging for it, it all depends on how you convey it. 

In that case, strive to be honest and even vivacious to your ex, perhaps asking for the forgiveness in a professional and gentlemanly manner. Begging can be detrimental; it will symbolize desperation and in typical scenarios doesn’t convince your ex that you need them back in order to learn how to get your ex back fast and permanently. 

As practical as it sounds, actions will work magic in convincing them that you have indeed left the past for the past and embraced the present. As an incentive, you can even draft a great text message, email or whatever is appropriate detailing how you intend to mend the broken and keep a healthy and lasting relationship. Trust me, this works!

One great mistake that we often do as a result of that hurtful break-up is bothering the other person. Remember, when there’s a break-up, both parties are affected and as sorrowful as you may be, the other individual isn’t any better. 

Since you still value the already broken relationship, why don’t you quit those disgusting midnight calls and texts? You can even leave the stupid intimidation remarks because they aren’t worth it. The best way is to keep calm and act like nothing happened while striving to revive it. 

When you stay in touch, you will be showing that albeit whatever happened, you still love, care and value them. Given the fact that he or she is definitely mourning, you can imagine the amount of relief that simple text message, call or even a communication via the social media will bring. Immense reprieve right? 

Let’s face it; we are humans, and jealousy is part of us. If you want to stir that reunion in the simplest, and perhaps the quickest way, just stay within his or her reach. Being close to his or her friends and relatives or those within his or her circles will eventually force your ex make the all-important U-Turn and revive the broken relationship. A word of caution, however, is; be smart enough to conceal your intentions lest they dissociate from you.

Apparently love and romance are two important aspects of any blossoming relationship. We all discourage heartbreaks because of its dire consequences. Aside from the five ways of getting your ex back as highlighted above. 

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